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B'Shalach - All's Well That Ends Well

06/11/2013 09:08:32 PM

Jun11

B'Haaloscha - The People of the Book

06/11/2013 09:08:21 PM

Jun11

Literary works are often suggested or sought out by people looking for something worthwhile to read. Mind you, the world today places so many demands upon us that reading has gone from an essential part of our day to a downright burden. Not so many years ago people typically read their favorite newspapers in the morning, enjoyed a weekly or monthly magazine as time allowed during the week, and curled up in bed with a good book in the evening. Today, most people read because they have to either because of school or because their parents make them.

Those who still read for recreation are asked, "Was the book you just finished a good read or really great"? Have you ever thought about what stands between a good book, something which was just enjoyable, and a truly great book? The difference between a good book and a great book is that a good book is a diversion which may give pleasure while you're reading it; a great book, however, is uplifting. It brings you into the story so strongly that you don't want it to end. I recently finished a really great book - the story of Rabbi Israel Meir Lau, the former chief Rabbi of Israel. I was upset when I finished it; his life story is riveting and the writing was wonderful. Every book needs a beginning and an end - even one so outstanding the reader feels a sense of regret that he's reached the last page.

I recall my days in Yeshiva Shaarei Torah listening to a shmuess (talk/lecture) given by my Rosh Yeshiva, Rabbi Berel Wein. Rabbi Wein frequently recommended books (secular but Kosher)for us to read to read. Usually these books were massive, deep ,making it difficult to keep up with the pace of his suggestions. the He insisted that all of us read the newspaper in order to keep abreast of daily events and emphasized that reading secular books that would enhance and mold our approach to Judaism.

Tanach, which is an acronym for Torah, Neviim and Kesuvim, are the three sections of twenty -four books which make up the written law. We are familiar with the first of these three: the Torah - the Chamisha Chumshei Torah or the five books of Moses. In this week's Parsha B'Haaloscha we are informed that there are really seven books, not five. In chapter ten, verses thirty five and thirty six are surrounded by two upside down or inverted 'nuuns'. The Gemara Shabbos 116a explains these two verses are actually an independent book, leading Rashi to say that the book of Bamidbar is really three books in one: one book before these pesukim, a second book consisting of these two pesukim, and a third book continuing after these two pesukim. If Bamidbar is actually three books, then we have a total of seven books from Bereishis through Devarim.

The Kli Yakar wonders how is it possible that these two verses actually make up an entire book?Where is there a Mitzva found in this two-verse sefer? Every one of the seforim of the Torah should contain at least one Mitzva! Where is the Mitzva within these two sentences comprising a book? He explains that Hashem made this book purely for the Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu - to be fruitful and multiply. The world's continued existence is contingent upon this Mitzva. As it states in Gemara Yevamos 64a "whoever does not involve himself in this Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu causes God's presence to leave the Jewish people". Itstates in Bamidbar10:36:'Uvnucho Yomar Shuva Hashem Rivvos Alphei Yisrael' 'Reside tranquilly, Hashem, among the myriads and thousands of Israel'. The word "Alphei" is plural for thousand, so the minimum is two thousand and the word myriad is ten thousand. The minimum of ten thousands in plural is twenty thousand, giving a total of twenty two thousand required for Hashem to rest within the Jewish people. Even if there is only one person not engaged in the proactive Mitzva of being fruitful and multiply, Hashem's presence will depart. In Bereishis God created man and immediately commanded him to be fruitful and multiply. The very first Mitzva given to the world through Adam was to try to have children, to procreate human beings who are created in the image of Hashem. If we turn away from this command, we are acting as if we don't want to be like Hashem, thereby diminishing His greatness.

This middle book of Bamidbar, consisting of only two pesukim, describes the Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu and its implications. It stresses the magnitude of trying to have children and the consequences if we do not try. The direct implication of this mitzvah is that either Hashem's presence joins us or leaves us. It all focuses on creating a new human being to carry on and give inspiration to the world. It's true that people make up the world, but it is a single person who makes up the people. Every single individual carries the weight and meaning of this world, as it says in Pirkei Avos: "The world was created just for me". A book of any size can make a great impact upon a person, especially if it is a great book. There are books that tell the stories of giants among men, people who have accomplished great feats despite the odds they faced and the adversity they struggled with in their life. And there are books which focus on the value and importance of each of us, on the possibilities within us to add to the positive, to the good of this world.

A good book makes someone feel good; a great book motivates a person to become a better person, to make a better world. In addition to learning Torah, a person should read great books, books which inspire you to do more for your family, community and the Jewish people. When I read the accomplishments of great people, I am stirred with the reality of how much more each of us is capable of accomplishing. I am motivated to try to do more.

The books of the Torah She'biksav and the Torah She'balpeh are the framework for our lives, telling us how to live. There are inspiring people in the Torah but somewhat difficult to relate to. Reading a book of a contemporary giant gives us the tools and motivation to become greater people and ultimately serve our people by leading a life of greatness.

Ah Gut Shabbos

Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

 

B'Haaloscha - The People of the Book

06/11/2013 09:08:21 PM

Jun11

Literary works are often suggested or sought out by people looking for something worthwhile to read. Mind you, the world today places so many demands upon us that reading has gone from an essential part of our day to a downright burden. Not so many years ago people typically read their favorite newspapers in the morning, enjoyed a weekly or monthly magazine as time allowed during the week, and curled up in bed with a good book in the evening. Today, most people read because they have to either because of school or because their parents make them.

Those who still read for recreation are asked, "Was the book you just finished a good read or really great"? Have you ever thought about what stands between a good book, something which was just enjoyable, and a truly great book? The difference between a good book and a great book is that a good book is a diversion which may give pleasure while you're reading it; a great book, however, is uplifting. It brings you into the story so strongly that you don't want it to end. I recently finished a really great book - the story of Rabbi Israel Meir Lau, the former chief Rabbi of Israel. I was upset when I finished it; his life story is riveting and the writing was wonderful. Every book needs a beginning and an end - even one so outstanding the reader feels a sense of regret that he's reached the last page.

I recall my days in Yeshiva Shaarei Torah listening to a shmuess (talk/lecture) given by my Rosh Yeshiva, Rabbi Berel Wein. Rabbi Wein frequently recommended books (secular but Kosher)for us to read to read. Usually these books were massive, deep ,making it difficult to keep up with the pace of his suggestions. the He insisted that all of us read the newspaper in order to keep abreast of daily events and emphasized that reading secular books that would enhance and mold our approach to Judaism.

Tanach, which is an acronym for Torah, Neviim and Kesuvim, are the three sections of twenty -four books which make up the written law. We are familiar with the first of these three: the Torah - the Chamisha Chumshei Torah or the five books of Moses. In this week's Parsha B'Haaloscha we are informed that there are really seven books, not five. In chapter ten, verses thirty five and thirty six are surrounded by two upside down or inverted 'nuuns'. The Gemara Shabbos 116a explains these two verses are actually an independent book, leading Rashi to say that the book of Bamidbar is really three books in one: one book before these pesukim, a second book consisting of these two pesukim, and a third book continuing after these two pesukim. If Bamidbar is actually three books, then we have a total of seven books from Bereishis through Devarim.

The Kli Yakar wonders how is it possible that these two verses actually make up an entire book?Where is there a Mitzva found in this two-verse sefer? Every one of the seforim of the Torah should contain at least one Mitzva! Where is the Mitzva within these two sentences comprising a book? He explains that Hashem made this book purely for the Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu - to be fruitful and multiply. The world's continued existence is contingent upon this Mitzva. As it states in Gemara Yevamos 64a "whoever does not involve himself in this Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu causes God's presence to leave the Jewish people". Itstates in Bamidbar10:36:'Uvnucho Yomar Shuva Hashem Rivvos Alphei Yisrael' 'Reside tranquilly, Hashem, among the myriads and thousands of Israel'. The word "Alphei" is plural for thousand, so the minimum is two thousand and the word myriad is ten thousand. The minimum of ten thousands in plural is twenty thousand, giving a total of twenty two thousand required for Hashem to rest within the Jewish people. Even if there is only one person not engaged in the proactive Mitzva of being fruitful and multiply, Hashem's presence will depart. In Bereishis God created man and immediately commanded him to be fruitful and multiply. The very first Mitzva given to the world through Adam was to try to have children, to procreate human beings who are created in the image of Hashem. If we turn away from this command, we are acting as if we don't want to be like Hashem, thereby diminishing His greatness.

This middle book of Bamidbar, consisting of only two pesukim, describes the Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu and its implications. It stresses the magnitude of trying to have children and the consequences if we do not try. The direct implication of this mitzvah is that either Hashem's presence joins us or leaves us. It all focuses on creating a new human being to carry on and give inspiration to the world. It's true that people make up the world, but it is a single person who makes up the people. Every single individual carries the weight and meaning of this world, as it says in Pirkei Avos: "The world was created just for me". A book of any size can make a great impact upon a person, especially if it is a great book. There are books that tell the stories of giants among men, people who have accomplished great feats despite the odds they faced and the adversity they struggled with in their life. And there are books which focus on the value and importance of each of us, on the possibilities within us to add to the positive, to the good of this world.

A good book makes someone feel good; a great book motivates a person to become a better person, to make a better world. In addition to learning Torah, a person should read great books, books which inspire you to do more for your family, community and the Jewish people. When I read the accomplishments of great people, I am stirred with the reality of how much more each of us is capable of accomplishing. I am motivated to try to do more.

The books of the Torah She'biksav and the Torah She'balpeh are the framework for our lives, telling us how to live. There are inspiring people in the Torah but somewhat difficult to relate to. Reading a book of a contemporary giant gives us the tools and motivation to become greater people and ultimately serve our people by leading a life of greatness.

Ah Gut Shabbos

Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

 

B'Haaloscha - The People of the Book

06/11/2013 09:08:00 PM

Jun11

Literary works are often suggested or sought out by people looking for something worthwhile to read. Mind you, the world today places so many demands upon us that reading has gone from an essential part of our day to a downright burden. Not so many years ago people typically read their favorite newspapers in the morning, enjoyed a weekly or monthly magazine as time allowed during the week, and curled up in bed with a good book in the evening. Today, most people read because they have to either because of school or because their parents make them.

Those who still read for recreation are asked, "Was the book you just finished a good read or really great"? Have you ever thought about what stands between a good book, something which was just enjoyable, and a truly great book? The difference between a good book and a great book is that a good book is a diversion which may give pleasure while you're reading it; a great book, however, is uplifting. It brings you into the story so strongly that you don't want it to end. I recently finished a really great book - the story of Rabbi Israel Meir Lau, the former chief Rabbi of Israel. I was upset when I finished it; his life story is riveting and the writing was wonderful. Every book needs a beginning and an end - even one so outstanding the reader feels a sense of regret that he's reached the last page.

I recall my days in Yeshiva Shaarei Torah listening to a shmuess (talk/lecture) given by my Rosh Yeshiva, Rabbi Berel Wein. Rabbi Wein frequently recommended books (secular but Kosher)for us to read to read. Usually these books were massive, deep ,making it difficult to keep up with the pace of his suggestions. the He insisted that all of us read the newspaper in order to keep abreast of daily events and emphasized that reading secular books that would enhance and mold our approach to Judaism.

Tanach, which is an acronym for Torah, Neviim and Kesuvim, are the three sections of twenty -four books which make up the written law. We are familiar with the first of these three: the Torah - the Chamisha Chumshei Torah or the five books of Moses. In this week's Parsha B'Haaloscha we are informed that there are really seven books, not five. In chapter ten, verses thirty five and thirty six are surrounded by two upside down or inverted 'nuuns'. The Gemara Shabbos 116a explains these two verses are actually an independent book, leading Rashi to say that the book of Bamidbar is really three books in one: one book before these pesukim, a second book consisting of these two pesukim, and a third book continuing after these two pesukim. If Bamidbar is actually three books, then we have a total of seven books from Bereishis through Devarim.

The Kli Yakar wonders how is it possible that these two verses actually make up an entire book?Where is there a Mitzva found in this two-verse sefer? Every one of the seforim of the Torah should contain at least one Mitzva! Where is the Mitzva within these two sentences comprising a book? He explains that Hashem made this book purely for the Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu - to be fruitful and multiply. The world's continued existence is contingent upon this Mitzva. As it states in Gemara Yevamos 64a "whoever does not involve himself in this Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu causes God's presence to leave the Jewish people". Itstates in Bamidbar10:36:'Uvnucho Yomar Shuva Hashem Rivvos Alphei Yisrael' 'Reside tranquilly, Hashem, among the myriads and thousands of Israel'. The word "Alphei" is plural for thousand, so the minimum is two thousand and the word myriad is ten thousand. The minimum of ten thousands in plural is twenty thousand, giving a total of twenty two thousand required for Hashem to rest within the Jewish people. Even if there is only one person not engaged in the proactive Mitzva of being fruitful and multiply, Hashem's presence will depart. In Bereishis God created man and immediately commanded him to be fruitful and multiply. The very first Mitzva given to the world through Adam was to try to have children, to procreate human beings who are created in the image of Hashem. If we turn away from this command, we are acting as if we don't want to be like Hashem, thereby diminishing His greatness.

This middle book of Bamidbar, consisting of only two pesukim, describes the Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu and its implications. It stresses the magnitude of trying to have children and the consequences if we do not try. The direct implication of this mitzvah is that either Hashem's presence joins us or leaves us. It all focuses on creating a new human being to carry on and give inspiration to the world. It's true that people make up the world, but it is a single person who makes up the people. Every single individual carries the weight and meaning of this world, as it says in Pirkei Avos: "The world was created just for me". A book of any size can make a great impact upon a person, especially if it is a great book. There are books that tell the stories of giants among men, people who have accomplished great feats despite the odds they faced and the adversity they struggled with in their life. And there are books which focus on the value and importance of each of us, on the possibilities within us to add to the positive, to the good of this world.

A good book makes someone feel good; a great book motivates a person to become a better person, to make a better world. In addition to learning Torah, a person should read great books, books which inspire you to do more for your family, community and the Jewish people. When I read the accomplishments of great people, I am stirred with the reality of how much more each of us is capable of accomplishing. I am motivated to try to do more.

The books of the Torah She'biksav and the Torah She'balpeh are the framework for our lives, telling us how to live. There are inspiring people in the Torah but somewhat difficult to relate to. Reading a book of a contemporary giant gives us the tools and motivation to become greater people and ultimately serve our people by leading a life of greatness.

Ah Gut Shabbos

Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

 

B'Haaloscha - The People of the Book

06/11/2013 09:07:55 PM

Jun11

Literary works are often suggested or sought out by people looking for something worthwhile to read. Mind you, the world today places so many demands upon us that reading has gone from an essential part of our day to a downright burden. Not so many years ago people typically read their favorite newspapers in the morning, enjoyed a weekly or monthly magazine as time allowed during the week, and curled up in bed with a good book in the evening. Today, most people read because they have to either because of school or because their parents make them.

Those who still read for recreation are asked, "Was the book you just finished a good read or really great"? Have you ever thought about what stands between a good book, something which was just enjoyable, and a truly great book? The difference between a good book and a great book is that a good book is a diversion which may give pleasure while you're reading it; a great book, however, is uplifting. It brings you into the story so strongly that you don't want it to end. I recently finished a really great book - the story of Rabbi Israel Meir Lau, the former chief Rabbi of Israel. I was upset when I finished it; his life story is riveting and the writing was wonderful. Every book needs a beginning and an end - even one so outstanding the reader feels a sense of regret that he's reached the last page.

I recall my days in Yeshiva Shaarei Torah listening to a shmuess (talk/lecture) given by my Rosh Yeshiva, Rabbi Berel Wein. Rabbi Wein frequently recommended books (secular but Kosher)for us to read to read. Usually these books were massive, deep ,making it difficult to keep up with the pace of his suggestions. the He insisted that all of us read the newspaper in order to keep abreast of daily events and emphasized that reading secular books that would enhance and mold our approach to Judaism.

Tanach, which is an acronym for Torah, Neviim and Kesuvim, are the three sections of twenty -four books which make up the written law. We are familiar with the first of these three: the Torah - the Chamisha Chumshei Torah or the five books of Moses. In this week's Parsha B'Haaloscha we are informed that there are really seven books, not five. In chapter ten, verses thirty five and thirty six are surrounded by two upside down or inverted 'nuuns'. The Gemara Shabbos 116a explains these two verses are actually an independent book, leading Rashi to say that the book of Bamidbar is really three books in one: one book before these pesukim, a second book consisting of these two pesukim, and a third book continuing after these two pesukim. If Bamidbar is actually three books, then we have a total of seven books from Bereishis through Devarim.

The Kli Yakar wonders how is it possible that these two verses actually make up an entire book?Where is there a Mitzva found in this two-verse sefer? Every one of the seforim of the Torah should contain at least one Mitzva! Where is the Mitzva within these two sentences comprising a book? He explains that Hashem made this book purely for the Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu - to be fruitful and multiply. The world's continued existence is contingent upon this Mitzva. As it states in Gemara Yevamos 64a "whoever does not involve himself in this Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu causes God's presence to leave the Jewish people". Itstates in Bamidbar10:36:'Uvnucho Yomar Shuva Hashem Rivvos Alphei Yisrael' 'Reside tranquilly, Hashem, among the myriads and thousands of Israel'. The word "Alphei" is plural for thousand, so the minimum is two thousand and the word myriad is ten thousand. The minimum of ten thousands in plural is twenty thousand, giving a total of twenty two thousand required for Hashem to rest within the Jewish people. Even if there is only one person not engaged in the proactive Mitzva of being fruitful and multiply, Hashem's presence will depart. In Bereishis God created man and immediately commanded him to be fruitful and multiply. The very first Mitzva given to the world through Adam was to try to have children, to procreate human beings who are created in the image of Hashem. If we turn away from this command, we are acting as if we don't want to be like Hashem, thereby diminishing His greatness.

This middle book of Bamidbar, consisting of only two pesukim, describes the Mitzva of P'ru U'rvu and its implications. It stresses the magnitude of trying to have children and the consequences if we do not try. The direct implication of this mitzvah is that either Hashem's presence joins us or leaves us. It all focuses on creating a new human being to carry on and give inspiration to the world. It's true that people make up the world, but it is a single person who makes up the people. Every single individual carries the weight and meaning of this world, as it says in Pirkei Avos: "The world was created just for me". A book of any size can make a great impact upon a person, especially if it is a great book. There are books that tell the stories of giants among men, people who have accomplished great feats despite the odds they faced and the adversity they struggled with in their life. And there are books which focus on the value and importance of each of us, on the possibilities within us to add to the positive, to the good of this world.

A good book makes someone feel good; a great book motivates a person to become a better person, to make a better world. In addition to learning Torah, a person should read great books, books which inspire you to do more for your family, community and the Jewish people. When I read the accomplishments of great people, I am stirred with the reality of how much more each of us is capable of accomplishing. I am motivated to try to do more.

The books of the Torah She'biksav and the Torah She'balpeh are the framework for our lives, telling us how to live. There are inspiring people in the Torah but somewhat difficult to relate to. Reading a book of a contemporary giant gives us the tools and motivation to become greater people and ultimately serve our people by leading a life of greatness.

Ah Gut Shabbos

Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

 

Mishpatim - Going the Extra Mile.....A Little at a Time

06/11/2013 09:04:25 PM

Jun11

The Aseres Hadibros which were read last week in Parshas Yisro is divided between Mitzvos Bein Adam Lachaveiroi and Lamakom: Mitzvos between man and God and between man to man. The second half of the commandments strictly focus on the mitzvos between man and man and immediately following with this week's Parshas Mishpatim. Mishpatim is full of Mitzvos that deal on the human level. There are set Mitzvos in the Torah and Halachos/laws set up in the Shulchan Aruch, the code of Jewish law. Beyond the letter of the law are those individuals who go Lifnim Meshuras Hadin - above and beyond the letter of the law. A few weeks ago I observed something I have never seen before, something that takes care and concern to a new level. In a very simple manner a person came up with a clever idea for dealing with a messy situation. Living in San Diego we know it doesn't rain too often, but when it does all havoc breaks loose. Car accidents galore top the news of the day.People living in San Diego really don't know what to do when it rains. Immediately, stores break out the umbrellas and start selling them like hot cakes. An umbrella is a wonderful invention and really can keep a person dry. One problem associated with the umbrella, however, is that when coming inside the wet umbrella drips, making the floor wet, muddy and sometimes downright slippery. On a rainy day recently I walked into a store and noticed that they were providing plastic umbrella bags, similar to the bags used when purchasing flowers which keep the flower stems moist while preventing in the residue of water in which the flowers were immersed from dripping on the floor. These larger umbrella bags, provided at no charge, are designed for anyone entering the store to put their wet umbrellas into to keep the floor dry! Someone who cares about the safety of others came up with this brilliant idea.Everyone understands that when it's raining and people use their umbrellas, the entry-area floor of a store will be wet.One person, however, wasn't satisfied with this status quo and found a way to make life safer and more pleasant for his fellow man. It is curious that most of the five Aseres Hadibros that are on the left side which address Mitzvos between man and man are in the negative:Do not murder, Do not commit adultery, Do not steal,.....etc. I believe this is a remez, a hint, that a person can learn from something bad just as much, and at times even more, than from something good. In this week's Parshas Mishpatim 21:37 the Torah states: 'Ki Yignove ish Shor oh She Utvacho oh M;charo Chamisha Bakar Y'Shaleim Tachas Hashor V'Arba Tzon Tachas HaSeh':'When a man will steal an ox, or a sheep or a goat, and slaughter it or sell it, he shall pay five cattle in place of the ox, and four sheep in place of the sheep'.. Sure, the Torah delineates laws that govern our society with penalties and taxes and fines. In addition to every black and white law, every mitzvah and situation in life, there is a tinge of Mussar - of ethical character refinement - from which we can learn and grow. Reb Simcha Bunim of P'Shischa says we can always learn from a Tzadik, a righteous person. It is easy and obvious how we should act when we observe a holy person. But yet there may even be other lessons and features in life to derive and learn from the wicked individual. Reb Bunim lists three things a person must learn from a thief in order to better serve Hashem: 1. A thief or robber (known in Hebrew as a Ganav) is not lazy. This is especially true at night when he goes out to steal. He goes out to work whether it's cold or raining. He never stays home, even if he is sick. 2. A thief never gives up. When a thief goes out and is unsuccessful in his first attemptto steal,he tries again and again and doesn't rest until he is successful (or gets caught). 3. The thief does not get embarrassed by stealing something small. Even though he may not be able to rob a big bank, he still tries to steal something smaller. Even though the amount may only be small, the thief is still encouraged to steal; his limited ambition does not hold him back. There is great determination and satisfaction the thief has about his "profession"; he does it with a passion. In a related manner we can also learn a great deal from individuals who are not fully developed yet possess tremendous strength and determination to grow and to learn. In the sefer Eser Oros authored by Yaakov Yitzchok Halevi, the Chozeh of Lublin, quotes in the name of the Magid of Mezeritchthat there are three things a person can learn from a child and incorporate into his own life: 1. A child is always happy. 2. A child never sits idly by 3. In general whenever a child wants something, he cries for it. Every day we battle the Yetzer Hara, and it usually boils down to a tug of war. The evil inclination is only tugging a little more than we are, yet we want to give up and throw in the towel. Where is our determination?If we just tug and pull the yetzer hara a little bit to our side we will experience incredible accomplishments. It just takes a little movement, a little push in the right direction. If we don't succeed on the first or second try, try again. If we daven to Hashem and don't get what we want, then think of the young child: cry a little more, plead your case, until Hashem gives in. Let us figure out the little extra ways of defeating our Yetzer Hara so that we can climb to the next level. Each step is a progression to strengthen our commitment to growth. Let's go the extra mile even if it takes us step by step to get there. Ah Gut Shabbos Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Mishpatim - Going the Extra Mile.....A Little at a Time

06/11/2013 09:03:18 PM

Jun11

Terumah - Adding Sometimes Subtracts

06/11/2013 09:02:29 PM

Jun11

T'tzaveh/Zachor - The Hidden & The Revealed

06/11/2013 09:01:24 PM

Jun11

Ki Sisa / Parah - Speaking Off the Cuff

06/11/2013 09:00:25 PM

Jun11

Vayakhel-Pekudei/ HaChodesh - Credit: Good to Have, Bad to Use

06/11/2013 08:59:24 PM

Jun11

Parshas Vayikra - Smack your Lips and Savor your Meal!

06/11/2013 08:59:12 PM

Jun11

When it comes to eating out, people choose between fine dining and fast food joints. A fine dining experience will usually take a few hours to eat food that can typically be eaten in a few minutes. A few weeks ago I ate in a restaurant with an all-you-can-eat menu in Israel. The experience was gluttonous - they served seven different types of meats, chicken and a plethora of side dishes. Diners are invited to taste as many of these delicacies as they wish. There is no time limit, you can stay there for six hours, get up walk around, go the bathroom, etc. sit back down for more. There is a distinct feel or sense of royalty when surrounded with the lavishness of eating in an environment of opulence. Truth be told, it borders on the prohibition of excessive eating, a negative commandment in the Torah. Yet, on the other hand, I reached the feeling of satiation whereby I might have been obligated to recite the full Birkas Hamazon despite not having eaten any bread. For me, the pleasure and enjoyment of this culinary experience was due to the fact that I could actually enjoy eating delicious food slowly, savoring every taste sensation with a sense of ease and relaxation. Typically, I would indulge myself by eating a good rib steak but would consume it quickly, not taking the time to appreciate the full flavor of the meat attained by eating more slowly. On the other hand, eating quickly, without proper chewing can wreak havoc on the intestinal track. Every dietician, doctor and health professional will tell you that eating slowly helps your digestion, keeps your weight in check, and helps to contribute to a more enjoyable life style. Of course, there are situations when we have no choice, but that should only be the exception not the norm. There are very few foods other than meat which are connected to an all -you- can- eat menu. I would like to suggest that there is a symbolic connection which deals with meat in both a Biblical and a rabbinic fashion. This week, as we begin Sefer Vayikra, the book of Leviticus, our attention will now focus on the daily activity that existed in the Mishkan, the portable Temple that we just completed building, concluding with its inauguration. Probably the most active part of the Mishkan was the processing of animals for Korbanos, ritual sacrifices and offerings. Animals were offered daily for the public and continually throughout the day for personal sacrifices. Sacrifices were offered for a host of reasons not limited to sin or guilt. Sacrifices were also offered for thanksgiving, free will, nazir, childbirth, and more. There was a constant flow of animals being led in, slaughtered and essentially roasted on the mizbeiach - the altar. Meat was consumed by 'Hashem', the Kohanim and their families. Some sacrifices were eaten and enjoyed by those who brought the offerings along with their families. The navi Hoshea in 14:3 states "Unishalma Parim Sifaseinu", "and let us render for bulls the offering of our lips. The essence of the sacrifices is to become closer to Hashem, hence the word "Korbah" which means to get close, is done through our lips. When sacrifices were able to be brought, the closeness to Hashem came as a result of the offering itself and eating of the meat. Post-Temple times, when we no longer can offer or get close in the way of eating, requires that we must using our lips in another way to get close to God. This is done through prayer! When it comes to communal or private prayer, a person establishes habits regarding the way he eats, similar to the way he davens. I'm not suggesting that there is a correlation between the speed with which a person eats and the speed of his davening, or vice versa. What I am saying is that there are people who daven quickly or slowly and people who eat quickly or slowly. A person doesn't realize that his body adapts to a certain routine whether it is eating or davening. After a period of time, a person can and will change, particularly with regard to speed of davening. This is especially true when we find ourselves in an environment which is different from that which we are accustomed to. Someone who is used to davening quickly will, at times, find himself in a slower minyan. Similarly, a person who typically eats slowly may be forced to eat quickly. We have already established the fact that doing things more slowly vis a vis eating -and probably davening -is healthier. During the busy work week a person may not have time to eat properly or to daven slowly for that matter. Nevertheless, when the 'opportunity' to 'slow down' occurs, we should take advantage of that time and enjoy it. This opportunity rolls around every week on Shabbos. Shabbos meals do not have to be rushed. We can enjoy the food, ambiance and atmosphere during the Shabbos meals. In addition, the Teffilos on Shabbos should be viewed as an invitation to take in all that prayer has to offer. Just as we can sit down and savor a great meal by eating slowly, taking pleasure in every aspect of the meal, giving it time to digest, so too can we use our mouths to savor the taste of the prayers. We have a chance to daven more slowly,to think about the words and the meaning of the tefillos in a way which we may not have the chance to do during the week. It definitely requires a change of mindset regarding eating, and kal vachomer, (how much more so) by davening. Stop and think for a moment. Do we want to eat our words by half chewing, or chewing so quickly that we devour them without even tasting them? The Korbanos, represented by our food, should be used to get closer to Hashem. Take the time to daven more slowly and with greater kavana -concentration and understanding- of the tefillos. Hopefully, by eating more slowly on Shabbos, we can try to train ourselves to eat a little slower during the week. Healthy eating habits contribute to becoming physicaly healthier. In the same vein we should enjoy and actually treasure slower davening on Shabbos. Hopefully, that too will carry over to our davening during the week, whether it's a Sunday or on a day off from work when we have more time. Ah Gut Shabbos Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Parshas Vayikra - Smack your Lips and Savor your Meal!

06/11/2013 08:58:03 PM

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Parshas Tzav - Instinct vs. Intellect

06/11/2013 08:57:45 PM

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When it comes to make important decisions in life, a person makes use of two essential weapons: his brain, his gut, and sometimes both. In our tradition women are blessed with binah yeseira - loosely translated as additional intellect. More so than men, we believe and have come to see that women have what we commonly refer to as women's intuition. Does a man have a counter-part to this Binah yeseira? I think the answer is yes, and that is that men have a 'gut' feeling when it comes to making decisions in life. Both binah yeseira and the gut feeling which occurs in men have to work within a framework of logic. For example if a woman is baking a cake and the recipe calls for x,y, and z she wouldn't say 'my binah yeseirah tells me I should use a,'b' and 'c' instead'. Likewise, a man won't use his gut feelings and tell himself that even though the speed limit is sixty - his gut tells him that he can push the pedal down to hit eighty- five. There are basic rules of nature and society by which people abide and won't allow their own psyches to convince them otherwise. Typically, men or women use their extra gifts of instinct as the exception to the rule, but don't make it the rule. Similar to this is our understanding and following of the mitzvos. There are a total of six hundred and thirteen positive and negative mitzvos - commandments. Through the centuries these mitzvos have been taught and codified into a standard set of rules and regulations known in halacha as the Shulchan Aruch. While the Shulchan Aruch is the framework, there are exceptions to many of those rules, but those exceptions are only to be determined by experts and followers of the law. I personally try to follow the laws of the Torah as prescribed without having any 'gut reaction' assessment to alter a law in the Torah. Keep in mind this is only for personal adherence to the law. When it comes to a psak halacha - a decision in law for a particular person in a particular situation - there IS room for the sixth sense or fifth section of the Shulchan Aruch. By and large I try to follow the rigorous structure of the law, but when it comes to secular decisions, I stray away from the 'laws of business or investing'. A stockbroker recently asked me why I bought a certain stock. On what information did I base my decision to buy? I answered that I have a gut feeling that the stock is going to go up. After flipping out at how I decided what stock to buy, he made a poignant observation. Since it is very difficult for anyone to lead a single -dimensional life one hundred percent of the time, they need to be a little flexible and loose when it comes to other areas of life. Due to the fact that I lead a strict, rigorous, and structured religious life, it would seem reasonable to be just a little 'crazy' when it comes to investing without any logic whatsoever. In this week's parshas Tzav the Torah states in 6:16 "V'chal Minchas Kohain Kalil Tiheye Lo Teiachel" - "And every Mincha offering the Kohain brought should be completely consumed, it shall not be eaten". The sefer Dudaim BaSadeh explains that when it comes to serving Hashem, a man must not have other thoughts that are mixed in with the service. The service must be one hundred percent dedicated to that particular mitzvah, korban, etc. The entire event must be solely for the sake of Heaven without an ounce of thought for personal gain. Avoda is Tefillah/prayer and during Temple times when sacrifices were offered, if a Kohen had a foreign thought it invalidated the sanctified animal, making it pasul (not kosher, not permitted for use). In terms of this verse, the Mincha of the Kohain is the Avoda - the service. Kalil Tihiyeh - completely consumed - means it is entirely for Hashem. There is absolutely no thought for myself, only for God. What the Torah means by 'do not eat' is not only taken literally but also not having any personal benefit whatsoever from that which goes only to Hashem. We shouldn't be doing any Mitzvos with an ulterior motive. Even the notion 'a man' should do a Mitzva even if he is not doing it for the right reasons, so that he will come to do it for the right reasons was only designed for children not adults. We encourage children to do Mitzvos and receive rewards or treats in order to train them so they will come to want to do Mitzvos later on for the right reasons. But this concept does not really extend to adults who shouldn't need the incentive. When it comes to gashmiyus/physical needs of the world and secular decisions and work, we are allowed to have our own input and our own benefits. On the other hand for spiritual matters and areas when we serve Hashem, we cannot interfere with our own suggestions or agenda. Serving Hashem, particularly with regard to spiritual matters, must reflect one hundred percent pure unadulterated dedication to Hashem without my personal 'gut feeling'. This is all evident in the upcoming festival of Pesach. When we were slaves to Pharoah in Egypt, we were not permitted to think on our own; we had a slave mentality. When we were freed from that slavery, we became slaves to Hashem and must now serve Hashem by just doing the Mitzvos, no gut reaction. All of the Mitzvos associated with Pesach are very detailed and specific, leaving no room for our personal suggestions of how to do things. It takes strength and courage to be free from the bondage of the Egyptians and become free to fulfill the Mitzvos of Hashem, being free yet following the Mitzvos to the letter of the law -precisely to the tee. Let this Pesach be the beginning of our ability to set aside our personal feelings and ideas and become a true Oved Hashem in serving Hashem. Ah Gut Shabbos Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Parshas Tzav - Instinct vs. Intellect

06/11/2013 08:56:34 PM

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Shemini - A Holy Cow

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Tazria/Metzora - Literary Challenges

06/11/2013 08:54:17 PM

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One of the advantages an orthodox pulpit Rabbi holds over other denominations is his Shabbos morning drasha. In other religions or other denominations, recording is not forbidden on Shabbos. It is, however, forbidden in an orthodox Shul. An orthodox Rabbi has a little more literary license when it comes to Shabbos speeches because no one can record them and 'catch' the Rabbi saying something good, bad or indifferent. On the other hand, writing a speech or a dvar Torah requires careful deliberation with regard to how and what to say. Once something is in print, it is forever! We are all well aware of the dangers and problems that have arisen due to the modern technology of e-mail, twitter, texting etc. whereby people type things and send them out without any discretion. Sometimes that information can destroy a person whom it is written against. It can also, at times, destroy the writer himself. A very dear and close friend of mine has a personal policy never to put things in writing for some of the reasons I mention here. Generally speaking, I try to follow his advice. However, aside from my weekly Torah message (like this one) I was recently drawn into writing for a forum whereby I answer questions with other Rabbis, addressing certain issues relating to the Jewish community. For the very first time in my life I wrote something out of the goodness of my heart and some readers either failed to understand the entire message or simply lacked the purpose of the forum. My latest frustration came when someone challenged my source and said, "Why quote from a secular source and not from a passuk in Tanach or from a certain medrash?" That individual's citation was poor as it did not give the book, chapter and verse for me to reference it. It took me a few hours to track down the sources and discovered one of his quoted sources was not to be found. I did find something similar in tone, but it was located somewhere else. In general, I become irritated and angry when I need to check sources and footnotes that are wrong - sending me on a wild goose chase trying to figure out where the source is. In this particular case the noted source and medrash was not the intention of my message. My theme was on the one hand to plan for a child's future and prepare him properly. I used a quote "not to look at the ship when it goes out to sea, rather when it comes back". My point was that it is important to prepare for the journey adequately, but not worry too much as you will see the fruits of your labor when your child grows up. The individual quoted a passuk from Kings One 20:11 "Al Yishalel chogeir K'Mifateiach" "One who girds the sword shall not boast as one who ungirds his sword". Rashi explains one who girds his sword to go down to war, who does not know whether he will be victorious or not, should not boast". The Malbim explains this a little differently: "One who enters into battle realizing that he may be defeated takes all precautions to avoid falling into the hands of his adversary. On the other hand, one who enters into battle certain of victory, will be careless and leave himself vulnerable to his enemy's attacks". The Yalkut Shimoni, quoting from the Medrash Tanchuma, explains this passage in Navi stating: "I am a king, the son of a king, while he has just recently acquired his kingship. Yet, he is arrogant and boastful?" The message is not to be haughty when you haven't proven yourself or have not gone through the trials and tribulations that a king or leader must face. Just wait. Later on, when you have gained more experience you will more deeply grasp the difference between a boastful or haughty affect and a confident and optimistic view for the future. The two don't necessarily contradict each other. No question that a person should prepare for his physical and spiritual battles beforehand, but we can be confident that if we have prepared properly we will experience ultimate success. We are not the ones to determine the meaning of success. If we have prepared properly, the result is what it should be. The timing of this little writing episode coincides with the discussion of the punishment of being haughty and boastful found in this week's parshios of Tazria and Metzora. While Parshas Tazria discusses the physical features of Tzaraas - leprosy - Parshas Metzora examines the rehabilitation and spiritual healing of the leper. The Gemara in Erchin 16a tells us the offenses that will incur the penalty of biblical leprosy, known as Tzoraas. The gemara states: Rav Shmuel Bar Nachmeini says in the name of Rebbi Yonasan, 'because of seven things the affliction of tzoraas comes upon a person. They are: Loshan Hora, shedding blood, swearing falsely, immorality, haughtiness, stealing and a stingy eye'. The Maharsha connects the seven kinds of leprosy mentioned in Tazria, stating that they will come based upon the offense of that particular sin mentioned in the gemara. The first sin of Lashon Hora, evil speech is the most serious of the offenses because it is the only one the perpetrator gets nothing out of as a result of his misdeed. This is in comparison to the other six sins where a person derives some forbidden benefit from their actions. The Tzoraas that comes from haughtiness is found on the forehead of a person. The first chapter of Gemara Sotah describes a haughty person as having worshiped idolatry as he walks around with his head held high, disregarding Hashem. The atonement for the sin of haughtiness is demonstrated by the Kohain Gadol, who wore the headband to remind us to be humble. Through the discussion of the physical features of Tzaraas in Parshas Tazria and through the rehabilitation and spiritual healing of Tzaraas discussed in Parshas Metzora we should be reminded that whenever we go out to accomplish something we need to remember that it is with God's help that we accomplish everything in life. We need to consistently put forth our best efforts and prepare to the greatest of our ability. But at the end of the day we can only be successful with the help and guidance of Hashem. If we forget about God and think we can do it alone, we are guilty of Gaava/haughtiness - a rebellious act of idolatry against Hashem. The Kapara/atonement is to keep in mind that Hashem is helping us along the way. We need to be confident that our situation in life will always have a good outcome as the ship returns home. Ah Gut Shabbos Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Tazria/Metzora - Literary Challenges

06/11/2013 08:53:07 PM

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Acharei Mos/Kedoshim - Senseless Acts of Beauty

06/11/2013 08:52:55 PM

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Students and congregants are supposed to learn from their teachers and Rabbis. It wouldn't be the end of the world, however, if a Rabbi or teacher would take the time to learn something from their students or congregants. A few months ago there was a news story that went viral showing a New York City police officer buying a pair of shoes for a homeless man. (Despite a recent report that the man is not homeless and sold the shoes because he has shoes). The act of kindness by the innocent police officer serves as a reminder to all of us of the idea of "unconditional giving". The story broke as follows. "Right when I was about to approach, one of your officers came up behind him. The officer said, 'I have these size 12 boots for you, they are all-weather. Let's put them on and take care of you.' The officer squatted down on the ground and proceeded to put socks and the new boots on this man. The officer expected NOTHING in return and did not know I was watching. I have been in law enforcement for 17 years. I was never so impressed in my life. I did not get the officer's name. It is important, I think, for all of us to remember the real reason we are in this line of work. The reminder this officer gave to our profession in his presentation of human kindness has not been lost on myself or any of the Arizona law enforcement officials with whom this story has been shared. The officer who has since been identified as Officer Lawrence DePrimo, has been inundated with support for his act of kindness. The story was shared and sent to me by a congregant and felt that this kind of random acts of chessed/kindness should be emphasized within our teaching. Every human being was created B'Tzelem Elokim - in the image of God - and therefore should follow in the ways of Hashem. God's existence is all about giving and getting nothing in return. Our lives are filled with opportunities to give unconditional kindness to our fellow man. When people hear or read about others doing unsolicited kindness, they think and hope they can do the same. Unfortunately, they don't. There are two reasons why people don't stop and do this type of kindness: 1. When the opportunity presents itself, they become 'shy' and don't feel they have the ability to carry it out. 2. The opportunities are there, but we are oblivious to them. For me personally I think I have the 'personality 'for it, to help out a perfect stranger and just offer help. My problem is recognizing and seizing that moment of opportunity. Once that moment passes by, chances are we won't go back to help. This past winter I was driving during a heavy rain pour. As I stopped at a light, I noticed a person sitting on the curb without proper protection or umbrella. I drove right past the person and only later did it dawn upon me that I missed that golden opportunity to somehow help that person. I could have given him my umbrella, given him a ride, or even gone a little out of my way and purchased an umbrella for him. I was really bothered by my lack of perception in realizing this was the opening of the window for me but I did not look out. Recently, though, I was able to capitalize on a chessed occasion not only once but twice. Since it was actually the same kind of act, I decided to write about it as I believe I was able to stretch out my antennas and tap into the correct frequency of Hashem's message. Twice within the last month while driving I approached a stalled car in the middle of the road. I immediately pulled over to the side and helped push and steer the car to a lot and a side road. Interestingly enough, in both cases other cars sped right by but a few others paused to at least ask if more help was needed. I am not writing about these episodes to gloat or to be haughty, rather to illustrate that we all have the ability to perform these random acts of kindness that will help others in their time of need and make you feel good about helping. Lastly, it re-enforces the notion of B'Tzelem Elokim - that we are not only fashioned in the image of God, but that we are expected to act that way as well. Parshas Kedoshim, the second of the two parshios we read this week ,is all about its name. Vayikra 19;2 the Torah states "Dabeir El Kal Adas B;nei Yisrael V'Amarta Aleihem Kedoshim Tihiyu, Ki Kadosh Ani Hashem Elokeichem". "Speak to the entire assembly of the Children of Israel and say to them: You shall be holy, for holy am I, Hashem, your God". The Chasam Sofer quotes Rashi and teaches that this portion was said by Hakhel, an entire gathering of the Jewish people men, women and children. The reason is because this holiness is not to be attained through separation and solitude but rather by being together amongst the people. Contrary to popular belief, attaining holiness is demonstrated by being with others and not just being by yourself. A person should get involved with people the same way that Hashem does, by doing kindness without expecting anything in return. Attaining holiness comes to different people in diverse ways. Some feel the holiness through what we call the spiritual side of life: learning, praying, and fulfilling the commandments as they were given. Others climb the ladder and want to share what it is like to be a giver for the purpose of giving alone and not getting anything in return. When God says be holy because I am holy, we should do those same acts of holiness, namely the random acts of kindness. Opportunities swarm around us all the time, but we need to be on the lookout for them. Hashem provides the prospect, but we have to prime ourselves for it. Being holy is accomplished by walking in the ways of Hashem. God is merciful, just, compassionate, and embodies all the attributes including performing Chessed for the world. In Davening we refer to Hashem as a Gomel Chessed, one who gives over kindness. This is one of the highest attributes to emulate. Next time you see an opportunity to perform a random act of kindness, remember that God has sent you the chance to become holy - to emulate the holiness of Hashem. Ah Gut Shabbos Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Acharei Mos/Kedoshim - Senseless Acts of Beauty

06/11/2013 08:51:47 PM

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Emor - Tattoos and Jews

06/11/2013 08:47:56 PM

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There are many times the Torah repeats certain Mitzvos, and Chazal identify the distinctions. In this week's Parsha Emor the Torah seemingly repeats a number of Mitzvos regarding the laws of mourning and its practices. In Vayikra 21:5 the Torah states: "Lo Yikrichu Korcha B'Rosham, U'P'As Zkanam Lo Yigaleichu, UBivsaram Lo Yisritu Sarates":"They shall not make baldness upon their heads, and the corner of their beards they shall not shave off, and in their flesh they shall not make any cuttings". An almost identical idea is found in found in last week's Parsha Kedoshim 19:27,28. The only obvious omission from last week to this week is at the end of 19:28 where the Torah states: "U'K'soves Ka'a'Ka Lo Sitnu Bachem: "And imprints of marks you shall not affix on yourselves. This is the Issur -prohibition - of permanent tattoos. I can only speculate as to why the Torah only mentions tattoos in Kedoshim and not in Emor. The reason why tattoos are forbidden is a matter of different opinions. Rashi in Gemara Makkos says that it is strictly a gezeiras hakasuv, a decree of the verse meaning it is a chok, a law which reasons we cannot understand. The Rambam, in the laws of Avoda Zara 12:11, writes this was a custom among the non-Jews who would make an impression on their bodies as service to their deity. The individual wants to sell himself like a slave and is marked on his body that he is the property of this man. Therefore, according to the Rambam it makes sense why the Torah concludes the section by reminding the Jewish people that Hashem is our God. The Eben Ezer explains that the tattoo was a picture of the person who died and they are now mourning for him. They would tattoo the name or the picture of the deceased on the hand or arm of a living relative who was mourning his or her death. Baal HaTurim says the Gematria of the word Ka'a'ka is 340, the same as the word Shem/name. The writing is the name of the Tumah, bearing the name of an avoda Zara. The Netziv, Rav Naftali Yehuda Zvi Berlin, in his commentary Haamek Davar on Chumash explains tattooing was for the other nations of the world to add to their pain over the loss of a loved one by etching out lines on the flesh of a living person. As a remembrance to the deceased, mourners would scratch out his name. If there was someone who did not want to do this, he would "rent" a poor person and tattoo the name of the deceased on his body. This was similar to hiring professional criers at a funeral - people who were hired to evoke emotions from the attendees. When I was growing up, tattoos were only seen on people perceived to be thugs and members of the lower class of society. Perhaps there were also individuals who had low self-esteem or just wanted to make a statement about themselves who tattooed their bodies with permanent marks. Today I look around and it seems as though almost everyone has some sort of tattoo, including-the guy bagging groceries, lawyers, doctors, nurses and professional athletes. The tattoo is "in". Even children are getting permanent tattoos. Workers are adorned with more body art than ever, but generational and cultural divides still keep most of the ink covered up. I came across an article published by MSN last Friday which quoted from an annual survey of the Center for Professional Excellence at York College of Pennsylvania, stating that 61% of human-resources managers said a tattoo would hurt a job applicant's chances. That's up from 57% in 2011. The article further quoted a Pew Research poll taken in 2010 which found that 23% of the adult population of the United States have at least one tattoo. That number rises to 32% among Generations X and Y and to 40% among millennial with 18% of those having six or more tattoos. Pew also stated that approximately 70% of the millennial cover their tattoos beneath their clothing. MSN quoted the New York Times which spoke of tattooed individuals wearing long-sleeved shirts, sweaters, and other garments just to get through job interviews. Currently, there are no laws forbidding discrimination against tattooed applicants, but once hired, attitudes towards talented tattooed workers may very well change. According to Inc., in 2007 over 15,000 registered tattoo parlors throughout the U.S. declared gross sales of $2.3 billion annually. To me, the phenomena of a society seeking to invest in permanent in body art reinforces the relevance of the Torah today. Halachik issues come up time and time again in our society that affect us as Jews. The fact that the prohibition of tattooing our bodies is a Mitzva in the Torah demonstrates its challenges to us, just as any other desire that must be controlled as God-fearing, observant Jews. Perhaps I can take license here by suggesting that the omission of this Mitzva in this week's parsha sends a hint to us that if someone did intentionally get a tattoo it should be removed. *A number of contemporary Poskim/authorities discuss the pros and cons and the obligation or lack of obligation to remove a tattoo. Rav Ephraim Greenblatt and Rav Nosson Gestetner Zt"l conclude that there is no obligation to have it removed. The violation was committed, and now it is finished. Still, is it better to remove it anyway? This should be discussed with a person's own Rav/Rabbi for guidance. Ah Gut Shabbos Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky *The Halacha discussion of the obligation to remove a tattoo is ONLY when it was put on willingly. A forced tattoo does NOT fall into the purview of this article.

Emor - Tattoos and Jews

06/11/2013 08:46:47 PM

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Behar/Bechukosai - Strengthening & Conditioning

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Bamidbar - Where Am I Now & How Did I get Here?

06/11/2013 08:45:28 PM

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Life is a journey and our challenge is to navigate to the destination where we want to end up. Some people move aimlessly from point 'A' to point 'B' and from 'B' to point 'C', and so on and on without having a goal of really where they want to end up. Without proper direction, focus, and a set of plans, a man will waste his life wandering around, occupying time and space from the time he is born until he dies. In order to accomplish something in this world, each of us needs a focus and central theme in life. On one of my excursions to Israel, I took a Jeep tour of the Judean hills and desert. It's amazing how easy it is to get lost going off- road driving in the desert. I clearly remember saying, "if they put a blindfold on me and spun me around a couple of times and left me on my own, I would never have been able to find my way out." Heaven forbid if I ever actually found myself under these conditions! What would I do? Thinking about this long and hard, I realized that the answer to finding my way out of a desert would be to look inward towards the Torah, and there is no better place than the book of Bamidbar - In the Desert. Many people are aware of the obligation to thank Hashem for saving their lives from four major life-threatening situations. Anybody who has been released from prison, who survived a life- threatening illness, who crossed over the sea and the desert and lived to talk about it should give special thanks to God. During Temple times a man would bring a korban todah- a thanksgiving offering - while today we get away with just saying a bracha of thanks. Surely in today's day and age, if someone were to get lost in the desert (even with a cell phone), he would surely give thanks for surviving a potentially deadly situation. Did the Jewish people have to give thanks to Hashem when they reached Eretz Canaan, surviving the desert? The answer is no, because they were with Hashem the entire way and probably gave thanks to God every single day. Even more so, the Jewish people were protected throughout their journey of the forty years in the desert; they were never in mortal danger to begin with. This week we begin Sefer Bamidbar. After the Jews were counted by their tribe, the Torah recounts three tribes per quarter section that surrounded the Mishkan. The Jewish peopled traveled in a very specific b'osos l'beis avosam yachanu bnei yisrael, mineged saviv l'ohel Moed yachanu": "The children of Israel shall encamp, each man at his division according to the signs of their fathers' house, at a distance surrounding the Tent of Meeting shall they encamp". Nachmanidies mentions that each 'degel' - flag - had a colored map attached to it. I would imagine the reason for this was so that each tribe could be immediately identifiable for other tribes to see. The color and design of one flag was completely different in color and appearance from all the other flags. The importance of a tribe to be recognized was so every tribe (brother) could see how their kinsmen could be of assistance to them if the need arose. The flag and symbol of each tribe was used to inculcate into their psyche that others were available to help if necessary, and that all members of the other tribes were ready to be of assistance to each other, whenever necessary. The Kli Yakar explains the idea of the Degalim/flags, based upon a Midrash. At the time of Matan Torah, when the Jewish people were receiving the Torah, they saw the angels with banners and flags, and the Jews desired to be like them. This is derived from a verse in Tehilim 20:6: "U'V Sheim Elokeinu Nidgol" - 'and in the name of God, raise our banners". At this point the nations of the world saw the greatness of the Jewish people clinging and clamoring to get close to Hashem. The non-Jews looked at the Jews and saw their greatness and offered them to return to them and to make the Jews leaders and heads of state among the gentiles. Even the non-Jews wanted to be associated with us and were willing to give greatness to the Jews. But we, the Jewish people, are cognizant of where our greatness comes from - from Hashem. All the Shvatim looked inward toward the Mishkan, the dwelling and residence of Hashem, for guidance and direction. Every once in a while each of us should stop, think, and ask ourselves the following:' Where am I, how did I get here, and where am I going'? Breaking down these three questions will determine our place in life. All too frequently, a person who does not center his life through focusing on God will discover that the many facets of experiencing the world, of knowing genuine enjoyment, lack true fulfillment. Surely, he will feel good for the moment, and that moment doesn't literally mean that second,but after it all wanes, the person is left empty, literally lost as to where he "fits" in this world and where he is going with his life. Following a life of Torah and Mitzvos leads a person to come to make the right choices. When a person centers his life on spirituality and God, the flow of life is understandable. When we stop and think of all the different scenarios and decisions made to get to a point after doing mitzvos and being close to Hashem, we appreciate the closeness of the Almighty. If we want to feel fulfilled in life we must turn toward the centrality of where life comes from.....Hashem. The symbol of the Mishkan in the middle of the four sections of the Jewish people travelling reminds us of this. Let us prepare for the road of Torah and the journey that we accept every year and undertake during the yom tov of Shavuos. Through genuine, deep introspection we will each find a deeper purpose and meaning in life, in our understanding of the real meaning of our journey through life, of where we end up at the end of the day. Ah Gut Shabbos Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Nasso - Feeding & Repeating

06/11/2013 08:43:56 PM

Jun11

This past week we enjoyed the Yom Tov of Shavuos. Among the many highlights of any festival is the theatrical episode that takes place during the Mussaf service commonly known as 'Duchaning' - the priestly blessings. The reason this is a big deal is due to the custom that Ashkenazic Jews only experience this "happening" on festivals. In Israel duchaning takes place every day; Sephardim Duchan every day even outside the land of Israel. In the Aruch Hashulchan siman128 #64, Rav Yechiel Michel Epstein writes: there is absolutely no good reason why we have done away with Duchaning outside of Israel. We should be doing it all year round; it is bad custom not to. But what can we do? It's as if a heavenly voice came down and told us not to do it. In fact, he writes that there are two independent, corroborated stories of two great Rabbis who tried to re-introduce the birkas Kohanim in the diaspora on a daily basis. In both cases, when the day this was supposed to take place arrived, a great confusion occurred in the city. The Rabbis took it as a great sign from Hashem that this was the decree; Duchaning should remain as is, not to be recited daily outside of Eretz Yisrael. I remember as a child there was always a big to-do and excitement regarding shielding children with their fathers' Talaisim and being warned not to look at the Kohanim while they were blessing the people. It should be noted that one is not supposed to turn away from the Kohanim in order to avoid seeing them. Rather, they should cover their eyes, look down, or peer into the siddur, but should always face the Kohanim in order to show our desire to receive the blessings. The procedure of 'Duchaning' has the Kohanim reciting a Bracha and then being fed the fifteen-word incantation taken directly from three Pesukim in the Torah. In my youth I recalled the great cantors singing, elongating these words that the Kohanim would then repeat. The reason the Chazzan says the word first is because the Kohain lifts up his hands and doesn't have the ability to look at or read the words, so he may come to forget which word he is up to. My son-in-law, who is a Kohain, explained to me that it is very difficult to keep one's hands raised in the air for an extended period of time; he was therefore grateful to me after I had been leading Mussaf and said the words quickly, unlike the cantors of yesteryear. During the Birkas Kohanim the congregation hears the words in stereo.Which voice do we pay more attention to? The obvious answer is we listen to the Kohanim, as the shliach tzibbur in this case is almost a non-factor. If there aren't any Kohanim present, then the Shliach tzibbur himself actually says those same words as a reminder of the Kohain's blessings. The chazzan, in the repetition, asks Hashem to bless us just the way the Kohanim would if they were present. But when Kohanim are present, the Shliach Tzibbur calls out "KOHANIM". The Sifrei tells us that the cantor must call out and tell the Kohanim to bless us. Why? Rav Yitzhak Konstadt (1866-1881), author of sermons collected as Luach Erez, published in Krakow in 1886, explains that the Kohanim are called out to bless the people because Bnei Yisrael would want them to be blessed and flourish so they would receive more in return. If the Kohanim came to bless the people on their own, it could be misconstrued as if there might be an ulterior motive in giving the Bracha, so they should get more. Therefore, they don't come to bless until they are called upon and show they aren't doing it for themselves. Furthermore, during the actual performance of blessing, the Kohanim lift up their hands, open palms facing outward to show their hands are empty but are ready to receive any gifts from now on. Although their hands are shown to the people, they face upward as a sign to themselves that all sustenance comes from above and should not come to rely on the people's gifts. The bracha concludes with the word Shalom/Peace as if to say they are not doing this in order to get anything, but rather to bestow peace and tranquility on Klal Yisrael. Rabbi Moshe Leib Erblich of Sassov (1745-1807), (a disciple of Rabbi Dov Ber of Mezeritch, the disciple of the Baal Shem Tov, the founder of Hasidism) states that the entire incantation of Birkas Kohanim is said in the singular. This, he explains, is because the main sticking point for the Jewish people to receive blessings is when there is Achdus/Unity amongst the Jewish people. Just as we stood at Har Sinai "K'Ish Echad B'Lev Echad" - "as one man with one heart" , so, too,we read on Shavuos, Vayichan Yisrael, and the Jewish people encamped as one person, also stressing the singular. When are people, families, communities truly successful? When are they not successful? Look around. If they are the recipients of true Bracha, they are successful. A true blessing is only effective, it can only come when there is peace and shalom directed to the recipient of that bracha. When there is dissension within the ranks, there is no receptacle for the bracha to take hold. If there is Shalom, if there is genuine peace and tranquility, then the blessing will find a place for itself. We've just concluded the Yom Tov of Shavuos where we re-enact the receiving of the Torah, just as our ancestors received it. An important lesson of Shavuos, of receiving the Torah is that we are reminded to be like one big, happy, peaceful family. On an individual level, those who are loving and shy away from confrontational situations and reach out to bring harmony to one another will surely be blessed. Perhaps Yom Tov is the perfect time to have Birkas Kohanim. It is a time when families get together and all Jews converge on the synagogue, joining together as one to receive the ultimate blessing from Hashem through His workers, the Kohanim. Ah Gut Shabbos Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Nasso - Feeding & Repeating

06/11/2013 08:42:44 PM

Jun11

Weekly Torah Message: Parshas Vayikra

06/11/2013 08:42:14 PM

Jun11

Many have heard the Hebrew word for love is Ahava. Many Hebrew words have roots, and the root of Ahava is Hav, which means to give. The message is very strong and clear that it is to our loved ones we give and give, and realize that by giving we are also getting in return. Similarly, as we begin Sefer Vayikra the Book of Leviticus we find a similar and striking comparison to the love notion. The third of the five Books of Moshe is Leviticus or in Hebrew Toras Kohanim for it discusses many of the laws associated with the Priests and primarily discusses the Korbanos, the sacrifices. The second verse of this week's Torah portion says "Dabair el Bnai Yisrael v'amarta lahem, Adam ki yakriv mikem korban La'Hashem etc". "Speak to the Children of Israel and say to them: When a person from among you will bring an offering to Hashem etc. The root of the word Korban, sacrifice is Karov to get close. When we GIVE a sacrifice to Hashem we are actually trying to get close to God. We are the beneficiaries of that gesture. God does not need out sacrifices, rather we NEED Hashem to accept them so we feel closer to Him. It is interesting to note that the word Mikem (in the verse) which means from among you can be read backwards and forwards as it has three letters of which the first and last are the same. Hinting to the fact that when people give of themselves for the sake of giving and doing so for the sake of Heaven then they are the true benefactors of their offering to Hashem. In our times the word sacrifice is sometimes interpreted that I am losing out on something. That I have given of myself that I am losing and will not retrieve. (Even in baseball when a person hits a sacrifice fly it does not go against his average as having made an out. Although he does not get any credit either). But in the Torah's perspective you actually gain by sacrificing to Hashem and for other human beings. Unfortunately, many people fail to see this in life. Sometimes parents feel that they don't need to sacrifice to bring up their children and to make concessions on their own comfort levels. Paying more for tuition, getting a tutor, sending the children away for a positive summer experience, sending away for a better kind of education all require SACRIFICE. Hopefully, the results of those sacrifices will be a better product and relationship with those important loved ones. I have noticed that people are jealous of others, it is a natural feeling that the Torah warns us against. But nevertheless, People are jealous of others but never recognize or appreciate the sacrifice those individuals made in getting them there! Nothing in life comes easy. In Pirkei Avos it says according to the pain will be the gain. We know that by the phrase "No pain, no gain. Korbanos may be difficult, in sacrificing our lives for others. But when we do, we will hopefully sit back and enjoy the fruits of our labor and getting closer and a return for our Sacrifice. Good Shabbos Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Parshas Vayakhel/Pekudei

06/11/2013 08:40:29 PM

Jun11

This week we read the final two portions of sefer Shmos, the book of Exodus. If we step back for a moment and view Jewish history up until this point. The Jews left Egypt, received the Torah, built the Mishkan/Tabernacle and are now on their way to Eretz Canaan, the land of Israel. Putting aside what we already know, that the Jewish people will wander in the desert for forty years we should be going into the land now. So what is the feeling in the air and what is the buzz in and around the camps? The very first verse tells us "Vayakhel Moshe es kol adas Bnei Yisrael vayomer aleihem, eileh hadvarim asher tziva Hashem la'asos osam". Moshe assembled the ENTIRE assembly of the Children of Israel and said to them: "These are the things that Hashem commanded, to do them." It then goes on to speak about the Mitzva of Shabbos. One can ask: Why does the Torah use the word kol the entire Jewish people instead of just saying Moshe spoke to the assembly? A second question is: What is the significance of gathering to teach the commandment of Shabbos when we have already mentioned it earlier? The Yalkut Shimoni which is one of the Midrashic explanations says that the gathering was for Moshe to teach the laws of Shabbos to the Jewish people ON Shabbos. Jews should gather in Shul and study halls to listen to their Rabbis teach about Shabbos. The Yalkut goes on to say that this is the source of the custom that Moshe said "Thirty days before a holiday we should ask and explain the laws of the coming festival. Thirty days before Pesach and thirty days before Sukkos learn the laws of that particular holiday." This message that Moshe sends us is the importance of the Jewish people to continue learning, learning from their Rabbis, and to come learn within a communal setting. One should not just learn at home, or by themselves, but rather with a teacher and among a group. The first question of why the entire nation was required to be there can be answered by our differences. Within every group, club, committee, religious affiliation and even family there are opinions and differences. At times, the spectrum within the right to the left can be argumentative and downright ugly. In today's times we find within the circles of Orthodoxy many brands and strands. Whether a person affiliates with the kippah sruga, suede, velvet or even a paper one we find differences among the group itself. Orthodox Rabbis within the same organization will have different philosophies and outlooks on halacha and practice. Moshe Rabbeinu is commanding through the word of G-d that is all fine and acceptable, as long as we see ourselves in the collective Kol, all the entire. We are so fragmented that Moshe instructs us to pull all together. When and where do we find this opportunity to come together, on Shabbos and Yom Tov. We need to aspire and do what Moshe did in pulling ALL , the ENTIRE Jewish people together regardless of how different we are. Let us have the merit to become a true Kehilas Yisroel and maybe then we can continue on the original plan of going into the land of Israel. Ah Gut Shabbos, and a Shabbat Shalom, Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Parshas Ki Sisa

06/11/2013 08:38:09 PM

Jun11

One of the worst events in Jewish history was the sin of the golden calf. Moshe Rabbeinu did not come down from Mount Sinai at the time that the Jews had "thought" he was to arrive. Moshe though was precisely on time, but it was the Jewish people who miscalculated. A miscalculation of a few hours led the course of history to be changed. The Midrash teaches us that the events of Matan Torah, the giving of the Torah had brought the Jewish people and the world back to a state of purity and perfection that the world had not known since the Garden of Eden. This state of elevation came crashing down as Moshe smashed the Tablets that he brought down from the mountain. What was the sin? The verse in chapter 32:8 states "Saru Mahair Min Haderech asher Tzivisim, Asu Lahem Masecha Vayishtachavu Lo, They have been quick to abandon the way I instructed them to follow, they have made for themselves a molten calf-idol and they bowed down to it". One interpretation given by Nachal Kedumim says the key to their "success" in sinning was that they were quick and did it fast. If they wanted to rebel and not do a certain Mitzva they might have to wait for the opportunity of that Mitzvah to come along. If they wanted to violate Shabbos they would have to wait until Shabbos comes. The sin that they chose was one of instant gratification, Idolatry. Avodah Zara, foreign worship of a deity can happen anytime and any place and that's why their downfall was so immediate. This is why they can fall from such great spiritual heights and fall to the depths of despair. The sin of worshipping idols is tantamount to the repudiation of the entire Torah. We today are living through our own sin of the golden calf. The Jewish people in general and the Orthodox in particular desire instant gratification. Mind you, that we are not speaking in terms of physical gratification but religious gratification. Individuals want that learning and knowledge should come right away after a brief study session. Every sermon the Rabbi gives should be to my exact liking and taste. Parents feel that their children should be educated immediately within the framework of our schools and Shuls without having to be a role model for their children. Sure it's easy to say "this is no good" or "they are not effective" and "therefore we need to get rid of it or them". People are looking for the solutions to come to them without working on themselves and their families. Klal Yisroel should have had the patience for Moshe and realize that getting something else was not going to solve their issues. If we want our society to be better and our children to grow up with better values then it must begin at home with ourselves. If we have certain expectations from people then we must demand that of ourselves first. We can't just throw it away because it did not meet my expectations, rather one must lead by example for others to learn by. If one person had stood up when Moshe was thought to have been dead and said let us wait and work on ourselves then the world would have been a very different place. If we stand up and lead by example and not criticize everyone and everything else then the world will surely be a different world in the future. Leading us back to the perfection of the world by recognizing the faults within us and fixing ourselves will ultimately bring about a world that resembles the Garden of Eden. Good Shabbos, Rabbi Avram Bogopulsky

Parshas T'Tzaveh/ Parshas Zachor

06/11/2013 08:36:37 PM

Jun11

The world was created with opposites. Good and bad, right and wrong, left and right, hot and cold. We find that many mitzvos have an opposite side to them. The same commandment can have a positive and a negative side to it. For example the mitzva of Shabbos has the element to remember to actively do something to commemorate Shabbos and the negative of Shamor to refrain and not do certain activities on Shabbos. Before Purim, we are commanded to read parshas Zachor, the portion to remember what Amalek (from whom Haman descended from) did to us as we left Egypt. When it comes to Amalek we must remember what they did and we also have another mitzva to annihilate the entire nation. In today's day, without knowing for sure who is a descendant of Amalek, this Mitzva cannot be carried out in the literal sense. I believe that beyond the actual fulfillment of any Mitzva the Torah commands us to do a Mitzva in the figurative sense. How do we see Amalek today? The Meam Loaz tells us that the word Amalek (in Hebrew) is numerically equivalent to the Hebrew word Safek meaning doubt. Amalek is that aspect of our souls which creates doubts regarding our service to God. Accordingly, the verse Asher Korcho Baderech, can be translated as "who cooled you off on the way". The Jewish people left Egypt on their way to Mount Sinai to receive the Torah, with enthusiasm and fire. On the way, they met Amalek and doubts began to arise: Should they commit themselves to God and his commandments of the Torah? Amalek must be totally obliterated since there is no positive quality that corresponds to the doubts and hesitation caused by Amalek. Its influence is totally negative and has no redeeming aspects. Consequently, no trace of Amalek must remain. Our service to Hashem must be alive with warmth and energy. This is one of the greatest challenges facing the Jewish people today. We are always looking for ways out of doing what is right, double-checking, and questioning if we are doing the right thing by following the Mitzvos and God. We know what's right, let's put Amalek and the doubts behind us. If we put Amalek behind us, then we will be ready for the coming of Moshiach and the rebuilding of the Beis Hamikdash speedily in our day. Wishing you and your family a Shabbat Shalom and Ah Freilichin Purim
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